and/or being afraid to call me.
sigh...the point of the in my defence post was NOT to make anyone uncomfortable when calling, feel free to call away...i just wanted folks to understand the realities of why i don't always answer right away.
it is actually a good system, you call...i answer if i am able or if i want to.... and if i do, you know i am ok about answering when i actually do...and if i don't answer, you know i am busy, and since i didn't answer, you are not bothering me either.